On Our Own: Social Distance, Physical Loneliness, and Structural Isolation in the COVID-19 Pandemic

• Published in: Social problems (Berkeley, Calif.) Calif.), 2024-10, Vol.71 (4), p.1216-1230
• Main Authors: Klinenberg, Eric, Leigh, Jenny K
• Format: Article
• Language: English
• ISSN: 0037-7791; 1533-8533
• DOI: 10.1093/socpro/spad003

ABSTRACT The early months of the COVID-19 pandemic were defined by distance and isolation, raising concerns about widespread loneliness. Drawing on 55 in-depth interviews with residents of New York City who lived alone during the first wave of the pandemic, this article examines the experience of living alone and dealing with loneliness during the early months of the COVID-19 pandemic, asking: What are the specific aspects of being or feeling alone that cause distress? Four key themes emerged from the interviews. First, although most interviewees reported experiencing loneliness at some point during the pandemic, they described themselves as being quite socially connected to friends and family. Second, being physically alone was especially distressing. Third, city residents who lived alone struggled with the loss of everyday interactions with neighbors and familiar strangers who had previously provided regular companionship in public gathering places. Fourth, solo dwellers reported that despite the social and emotional challenges of living alone, feeling abandoned or marginalized by society at large – a phenomenon that we refer to as “structural isolation” – was ultimately a greater emotional burden. These findings highlight the importance of social and structural dimensions of loneliness, helping to sharpen our existing sociological conceptualization of loneliness.