Developmental and Ethnic Issues Experienced by Emerging Adult African American Women Related to Developing a Mature Love Relationship

• Published in: Issues in mental health nursing 2012-01, Vol.33 (1), p.39-51
• Main Author: Tyson, Sheryl Y.
• Format: Article
• Language: English
• Subjects: Adaptation, Psychological; Adult; African Americans - psychology; Black American people; Caregivers - psychology; Cost of Illness; Female; Focus Groups; Gender Identity; Goals; Humans; Individuation; Intimacy; Love; Maturity; Nursing; Prejudice; Self Concept; Social Identification; Social Responsibility; Social Values; Stereotyping; Women; Young Adult
• ISSN: 0161-2840; 1096-4673
• DOI: 10.3109/01612840.2011.620681

This qualitative study explored perspectives of emerging adult African American women on the development of mature love relationships. Inductive analysis of focus group interviews, conducted with a purposive sample of 31 African American women, yielded themes related to relationship goals and characteristics, and interpersonal and societal challenges to finding the right partner and developing a mature love relationship. Core categories that emerged from analysis of the discussions were (1) age and relationship goal differences within the emerging adult group, (2) mature love relationship goals and characteristics, (3) interpersonal obstacles to finding the right partner, and (4) societal obstacles to finding the right partner. Two approaches-black womanist/feminist thought (Collins, 2000; Walker, 1983) and relationship maturity theory (Paul & White, 1990)-were then combined to explain the influence of historic and contemporary interpersonal and societal factors on developmental and ethnic issues that challenge positive gender identity formation, hasten intimacy maturity, and hinder the development of mature love relationships among emerging adult African American women. For these women, premature responsibility, especially early caregiver burden, was related to the early development of intimacy capacity and the desire for a mature love relationship, to be protected, and to have someone to help carry the load. Interracial dating, negative stereotypic images of African American women, and even positive images of enduring black love relationships posed difficult challenges to positive identity formation and intimacy maturity. A primary challenge was to counteract negative stereotypic images, so that they could develop their own self-identities as women and as relationship partners.