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“She’s not the child we had”: How parents reconstruct their child’s identity to include violent and with mental illness

This study examines the grief experiences of parents raising children with serious mental illness and violent tendencies (SMI/VT). We conducted in-depth interviews with 32 self-identified parents of young and adult children with SMI/VT. We employed a modified version of grounded theory for the data...

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Published in:Journal of family trauma, child custody & child development (Print) child custody & child development (Print), 2024-01, Vol.21 (1), p.22-40
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