Women’s experience with religion and spirituality when perceiving their husband’s pornography use as problematic: A qualitative study

• Published in: Journal of social and personal relationships 2024-04, Vol.41 (4), p.730-753
• Main Authors: Hastings, Heidi F., Lucero Jones, Rebecca, Dutton, Catherine
• Format: Article
• Language: English
• Subjects: American Indians; Catholics; Christianity; Christians; Cultural change; Cultural sensitivity; Exegesis & hermeneutics; Experience; Feminism; Feminist theory; God; Healing; Heterosexual relationships; Heterosexuality; Husbands; Jewish Americans; Men; Personal development; Phenomenology; Pornography; Pornography & obscenity; Qualitative research; Religion; Religiosity; Religious beliefs; Religious leaders; Resilience; Spirituality; Transformation; Wives; Women
• ISSN: 0265-4075; 1460-3608
• DOI: 10.1177/02654075231213610

Background: Several recent studies concerning men’s pornography use have challenged past research conclusions that male pornography use negatively impacts relational outcomes in heterosexual relationships. While extant literature has explored the intersection of religion and men’s experience with pornography consumption, the impact on religious wives has primarily been understudied. Purpose: The present study examined the impact of a husband’s problematic pornography use on a religious woman’s spirituality and religiosity. Methods: Semi-structured interviews were conducted with 27 women who self-identified as religious women. Faith traditions of the participants include Catholic, Jewish, Latter-day Saint, Native American Spiritual, non-denominational Christians, Protestant Christians, and Spiritual. The data was analyzed using interpretive phenomenology, a qualitative methodology. Results: Using a feminist hermeneutics theoretical lens to analyze the data in a way that gives preference for the woman’s experience, three primary themes emerged: Wrestle with Religion, Relationships that Facilitate Healing, and Spiritual Growth. Nine subthemes were identified, including Influence of Religious Culture, Unmet Expectations of Religious Leaders, Challenges to Faith, Support from Inside the Religion, Recognizing the Need for Support Outside the Religion, Women Need Women for Healing, Divine Assistance, Relationship with God, and A Journey of Growth and Transformation. Conclusions & Implications: These primary themes and subthemes provide a rich description of the religious context, means to healing, and resilience that characterize religious women’s experiences after discovering a husband’s problematic pornography use. Most importantly, the authors discuss significant implications for religious leaders and clinicians seeking to provide culturally sensitive care to distressed women.