Demystifying Maternal Sex and Sexuality: Rhetorical Choices of a Situated Mother

A sexual instinct is a basic biological urge in humans to experience sexual pleasure and beget progeny through sexual relations. However, it is considered a sacred act of procreation in Indian culture and society. For most Indians, a woman is a personification of the mother goddess and her sexuality...

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Published in:Social development issues 2024-09, Vol.46 (3), p.65-80
Main Author: Nisha, Zairu
Format: Article
Language:English
Subjects:
Choices
Coercion
Decision making
Deities
Energy
Ethics
Gender
Goddesses
Imagery
Indian culture
Instinct
Lineage
Marriage
Modernity
Mothers
Mythology
Pleasure
Procreation
Sacredness
Scriptures
Sexes
Sexual behavior
Sexual coercion
Sexuality
Social construction
Social institutions
Society
Symbolism
Women
Worship
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Summary:A sexual instinct is a basic biological urge in humans to experience sexual pleasure and beget progeny through sexual relations. However, it is considered a sacred act of procreation in Indian culture and society. For most Indians, a woman is a personification of the mother goddess and her sexuality is a sacramental subject of worship. But the gulf between the ideal imagery and the real-life situation of a woman is a glitch in her sexual expression and choices. Irrespective of the projection of women’s inherent sexual energy as being sacred, it is deeply controlled and structured by social institutions. She is not a free sexual being but a situated mother; her sexual choices are located within the institution of marriage maintained exclusively for getting a male heir for the family lineage. This paper expounds and explores the pervasive but ignored women’s unseen sexual coercion in the form of maternal choice in Indian society. The dichotomy presented in the symbolic representations of the mother goddess’s powerful sexuality—illustrated in mythologies and scriptures, and the social construction of real-life mothers’ sexuality influence their choices. It also investigates how her maternal sexual choices are devalued, and viewed as unreal, unethical, and sinful activity. Lastly, it may be said that the divine projection of women as mother Goddesses and the exaltation of their procreative capacity deprive them of their sexual choices. It appears as a free choice but there is a hidden coercion that women fail to understand is the greatest cause of their sexual enslavement.
ISSN:0147-1473
2372-014X
DOI:10.3998/sdi.6768