He Really Leant on Me a Lot: Parents’ Perspectives on the Provision of Support to Divorced and Separated Adult Children in Ireland

The literature on intergenerational transfers and divorce has paid little attention to the experiences of older adults whose son or daughter has divorced or separated. The authors conducted 31 qualitative interviews to explore support provision from the perspective of older adults with divorced or s...

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Published in:Journal of family issues 2011-12, Vol.32 (12), p.1622-1646
Main Authors: Timonen, Virpi, Doyle, Martha, O’Dwyer, Ciara
Format: Article
Language:English
Subjects:
Adult Children
Adults
Child Rearing
Divorce
Elderly
Family Relationship
Foreign Countries
Generational Differences
Grandparents
Intergenerational relationships
Interviews
Ireland
Marital Disruption
Older Adults
Older people
Parent Attitudes
Parents
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Summary:The literature on intergenerational transfers and divorce has paid little attention to the experiences of older adults whose son or daughter has divorced or separated. The authors conducted 31 qualitative interviews to explore support provision from the perspective of older adults with divorced or separated adult children. All respondents were also grandparents. Older adults whose sons and daughters have experienced divorce or separation seek to accomplish two main aims, namely (a) compensating for the perceived losses that their adult children (and grandchildren) have experienced and (b) drawing boundaries around the support that they channel to compensate for the losses. The findings support the relevance of both the solidarity and ambivalence paradigms in seeking to understand postseparation intergenerational relationships and transfers, and hence the argument that these frameworks are compatible and complementary.
ISSN:0192-513X
1552-5481
DOI:10.1177/0192513X11412036