The meaning of rituals after a stillbirth: A qualitative study of mothers with a stillborn baby

• Published in: Journal of clinical nursing 2018-03, Vol.27 (5-6), p.1134-1142
• Main Authors: Tseng, Ying‐Fen, Hsu, Min‐Tao, Hsieh, Yueh‐Tzu, Cheng, Hsiu‐Rong
• Format: Article
• Language: English
• Subjects: culture; Families & family life; Grief; loss; Maternal child nursing; Mothers; Nursing; Qualitative research; qualitative study; Rites & ceremonies; ritual; Stillbirth
• ISSN: 0962-1067; 1365-2702
• DOI: 10.1111/jocn.14142

Aims and objectives To explore the meaning of rituals that women and their families perform after a stillbirth. Background A cultural taboo in Taiwan prohibits discussing death; thus, parents of stillborn babies have no established public mourning or burial ceremonies to perform for their stillborn children. Stillbirths are often treated as if they had never happened. Design Qualitative descriptive study. Methods In‐depth interviews, which were transcribed and content analysed, were conducted with a purposive sample of 16 women discharged from two teaching hospitals in Taiwan after they had a stillbirth. Results Families engaged in rituals for two underlying reasons: to benefit the deceased child and the immediate family. The meanings of the rituals for the child are presented through three themes: (i) sending the baby's spirit to a safe place, (ii) protecting it from suffering and (iii) preparing it for a better reincarnation. The meanings of rituals for the families are presented through four themes: (i) releasing parental guilt by doing their best for the deceased child, (ii) cutting bonds with the child, (iii) avoiding additional misfortune should they mishandle the funeral and (iv) praying for a successful subsequent pregnancy. Conclusions Death‐related rituals are highly culturally diverse. This study fills a gap about Asian cultures. Participating in rituals permits a mother to do something for her deceased child, helps relieve her guilt and lets her cope with the stillbirth. Rituals after a stillbirth can help a woman recover from grieving and allow her to hope for a successful subsequent pregnancy. Relevance to clinical practice Health professionals should discuss with bereaved parents what rituals they would like to perform and then respect their decisions. A continuum of care and support that exists from the prenatal diagnosis through the stillbirth and beyond is recommended for parents and families during this difficult time.