To Lie or Not to Lie: The Views of People With Dementia and Their Carers

In Ireland over 36,000 people with dementia live at home cared for by informal carers. Yet often these carers do not know how to deal with cognitive symptoms, including repeated questions wherein ‘truthful’responses cause distress. Carers face a dilemma, do they avoid, distract or ‘correct’ the pers...

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Published in:Innovation in aging 2020-12, Vol.4 (Supplement_1), p.758-758
Main Authors: Casey, Dympna, Lynch, Una, Cooney, Adeline, Houghton, Catherine, Smyth, Siobhan, Jordan, Fionnuala, Felzman, Heike
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Language:English
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Summary:In Ireland over 36,000 people with dementia live at home cared for by informal carers. Yet often these carers do not know how to deal with cognitive symptoms, including repeated questions wherein ‘truthful’responses cause distress. Carers face a dilemma, do they avoid, distract or ‘correct’ the person and tell the ‘truth’, or lie? This paper explores the concept of lying from the perspective of the carer and person with dementia. A descriptive qualitative methodology was used. Focus groups with a purposive sample of people with memory problems (n = 14) and carers (n = 18) were conducted. The results found that deliberate lying with the intention to deceive was deemed unacceptable by all. However, in certain circumstances telling a ‘good lie’ or ‘white lie’ was considered acceptable when the carer knew the person and the intention behind the ‘lie’ was to mitigate the distress of the person with dementia.
ISSN:2399-5300
2399-5300
DOI:10.1093/geroni/igaa057.2734