Adaptive and Nonadaptive Help Seeking With Peer Harassment: An Integrative Perspective of Coping and Self-Regulation

When harassed by peers, elementary school students often face a dilemma of whether to ask their teacher for help. Assistance may be useful, and perhaps necessary. However, there can be social costs; children generally are expected to resolve interpersonal conflicts on their own. Two theoretical pers...

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Published in:Educational psychologist 2008-01, Vol.43 (1), p.1-15
Main Author: Newman, Richard S.
Format: Article
Language:English
Subjects:
Aggression
Bullying
Conflict
Conflict resolution
Coping
Educational psychology
Elementary Education
Elementary School Students
Elementary Schools
Harassment
Help Seeking
Peer Groups
Peers
Perceptions
Safety
Self Management
Student Attitudes
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Summary:When harassed by peers, elementary school students often face a dilemma of whether to ask their teacher for help. Assistance may be useful, and perhaps necessary. However, there can be social costs; children generally are expected to resolve interpersonal conflicts on their own. Two theoretical perspectives (i.e., coping and self-regulation) provide a framework for conceptualizing adaptive help seeking as a strategy for dealing with peer harassment. A key feature of the strategy is the student's recognition that help is necessary to maintain safety. This article reviews research that supports this conceptualization. Studies focusing on students' perceptions of harassment and judgments about the necessity for help are integrated with developmental research on peer conflict and aggression. Adaptive help seeking is contrasted with two nonadaptive responses to harassment (i.e., seeking help when it is unnecessary and failure to seek help when it is necessary), developmental implications are discussed, and directions for research are suggested.
ISSN:0046-1520
1532-6985
DOI:10.1080/00461520701756206